Kids, Reiki and Life

Julian started his reiki journey today. This is a child you since preschool always had the issue of not being able to walk because all he wanted to do was run. As an Indigo child he needs to constantly be in motion. He is an elevated spirit and elevated soul. Julian is an empath who feels deeper than most kids his age. He is nurturing, kind, mindful and always looking to make a change. Taking the first steps to becoming a Reiki Master is the natural next step for him.

Julian was a miracle true to the meaning to a tee. When he was younger he would get up to leave to go to his little family in the little house. He was connected to a past that was no longer part of his life. He used to thank me for saving him and making him better. I am aware everyday how lucky I am to have him and aware of the responsibility I hold in helping him nurture his own gift.

When he was in daycare I remember discussing with one of the moms how when he was sick, needing breathing treatments, spending days and nights in the hospital how I would hold him as tight as I could and try to give him all my positive energy and try to help heal him. I remember her looking at me like I was crazy, or so I thought and instantly regretted speaking those words. Instead she said “you know that is Reiki”. I never heard of it. I didn’t know about manifestation, I only knew I had drew pictures of the house I wanted, cut out pictures of goals I wanted to achieve and put them up on my door. The LOA was something new to me. She then invited me to a meeting about LOA, assuming it was something I was already into. That day my whole world opened up to me.

I started to teach Julian at two about manifestation, law of attraction and had him make his own vision board. Once I was open to it and started to open him up people would come up to us and just give us these amazing readings that were spot on. They would say things about his “other” family, me saving him from his breathing issues which multiple people told me that is how he passed in his other lives (crazy for some to read that). Everything made sense and I knew starting Julian on this spiritual journey was one of my many purposes.

I became a Reiki Master, knowing that one day I wanted him to follow. It took me 40 years to get where he is today at seven! He is elevated in mind, body and soul. He is aware of others pain and happiness. He looks for ways to help others and will try to think of ways to help them heal.  When he hurts I know it is deep and painful which is something I wish I could fix but I know it is part of his path to learn how to heal himself. I am helping him learn how through Reiki, crystals and essential oils.

Julian completed Reiki I and instantly started practicing on me when we got home. He absorbed so much more than I expected in the class. He was distracted and not the best student but he walked away with the knowledge. After going through his crystals with him we picked out the ones he need set them up on his headboard and he did Reiki on them with no prompting from me.

We spoke about what he learned and was repeating things verbatim from his training. I explained he would be going through a spiritual detox so in our diffuser we put white angelica, geranium, frankincense,  valor, thieves, and sage. All positive, vibrating oils with good energy and grounding effects.  He woke up from a very vivid dream and came to cuddle with me, the next two nights he also slept in my bed because he was worried about the dreams, which he had again both nights. The fourth night, nothing, crystals out, oils in and diffuser on, quiet night and a good smelling home.

Going through this holistic and spiritual journey with my favorite person is amazing. Setting up the future to be filled with these little healers is an amazing vision. I am both proud and amazed by Julian and his openness to learn and his eagerness to help heal. He is a confirmation that I am exactly where I am supposed to be on my journey following my path.

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With Love and Light

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Finding Balance · Uncategorized · Young Living · YouTube, Adventures With Julian

Orange Soothes Me, Sacral Chakra

Is it crazy that a color can effect your life and balance? Although we have more than 7 chakras in our bodies, it’s the 7 chakras of our energy center that we focus on in Reiki. I give myself reiki daily and every now and then a fellow Reiki Master and my mentor will do reiki on me. It’s always my sacral chakra that’s out of balance and needs to be shoved back in line.

What is the sacral chakra ?

It is your second chakra, represented by the color orange. This is for warmth and emotion. It is located above your root chakra, below your naval. This chakra is the holder of your sexuality, creativity, emotions and relationships.

When it is blocked or imbalanced you will feel guilt, shame and internal pain. It can make you feel as if you lost control of your life, leaving it to feel chaotic and overwhelming. A lack of self-esteem or self-worth due to the imbalace can also contribute to finding youself in unhealthy, and sometimes abusive relationships. Your self-esteem and self-worth are tarnished.

So that all sucks! How do you balance it?

It is something I need to do often. Going through a divorce where I felt abandoned long ago, questioning my own strengths, even though I’ve been doing it on my own all these years. Sometimes I’m scared and unbalanced.

First thing to do is reiki. This will unblock and align your chakras. Then it’s up to you to keep them balanced in between sessions.


Surround yourself with orange things. Clothes, shoes, ties, pocketbooks etc. Eat orange foods such as oranges, sweet potatoes, yams, butternut squash, pumpkin, carrots, cantaloupe…you get it. Essential oils, orange which you can wear, drink or smell, rose, sandalwood, jasmine, clary sage to name a few. Yoga poses which you can find here.

Meditate, it doesn’t have to be for hours, 10 minutes, if you can’t find 10 minutes to keep yourself balanced you need to reevaluate your schedule or your commitment to yourself.

Repeat these mantras in your head, while meditating, out loud in the car, in front of a mirror.. wherever, just do it. “I am radiant and strong ” “My creativity flows through me like water” ” I am sexual and deserve pleasure and love” “I am in control of myself and live a passionate life”. Mine usually starts with “I am worth it. I deserve passion and love ” ” I live a life full of creativity and am in control of me” . As you do this more you will come up with mantras more specific to yourself.

Please remember -You are worth it. You deserve it. This is your life. You control it. You are loved. You are beautiful inside and out.

Love yourself, you spend every moment with YOU, so it makes sense to love the person you’re with the most.

I wish you nothing but love, security and balance with love and light until next time. 🕉☯️

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Manifesting Madness



When I think of manifesting good things come to mind. I think of peaceful meditation, oils diffusing and amazing thoughts playing through my head.  I picture attracting all my thoughts, an amazing life, success and so on. Manifesting to me is a complete process that has time set aside for it and comes so easy.

In truth it only takes 17 seconds to put something out into the universe, so can’t that be at any moment in the day? When I am driving and cursing under my breath at the person that cut me off to then drive 20 miles under the speed limit – yes I curse, am I manifesting that anger into the universe? If I keep my rant to 14 seconds will it not make it to the ears of the universe?

When are you manifesting? I try to be mindful of my thoughts all day, everyday and of my potty mouth which in reality I am less successful at. I make time to manifest  and organize my thoughts once Julian goes to sleep but sometimes my mind wonders. I start to think of different scenarios of different things going on in my life. I start with the “what if” questions that range from winning the lotto to if I could take back 5 days of my life which would they be. I go on wild journeys with my mind sometimes and it takes me time to ground myself and start all over again.

There have been times I brought myself back to horrific places in my life just to relive it because I felt I needed to feel that pain. It put me in an awful space and I had no real reasoning or understanding of why I did it. My answer now is I was trying to bring madness back into my life because I didn’t feel I was worthy of the peace I am now living.

I lived with hostility, abuse and dysfunction for so many years it became my norm, when it was gone sometimes I would panic.  At times it was hard to believe I was past all of it and didn’t need it in my life to survive. Sometimes I needed to bring myself back to that level of hate of self and life, as well as all the ways I felt I disappointed the world around me and everyone in it. It was the familiarity of self loathing that I felt I needed to bring me down a peg, as if I was telling myself “oh yeah you think your free of this, well remember when….” I brought the madness back into my life, I manifested it.

I started writing things down on why I don’t need that hate and why I love myself and what I love about myself. Little by little I was able to move that madness to the back of my mind, as most people with PTSD can tell you it never fully goes away. I have no use for the useless information and memories that are stored in that little bubble.  I am learning to control it, with that I am able to move past and move on to be my best self.

I am not at my best but I am so much better then the me I once was and on the path of prosperity to get to the best. I laugh now at the thought that I am not worthy, even on my worst days I am so far away from the horror I once lived. I am far away physically, emotionally, spiritually and best of all mentally.

Love and Light to all that are on this journey. Please remember you are worth it, you are love and you are loved.

PS I know the picture doesn’t exactly go with the post but I love it and it makes me happy ❤

New Year Resolutions · Uncategorized

New Year, New You… BullS*8t


It is a new year and that means resolutions and all the new fabulous things you are setting yourself up for. New body, new money, new adventures and so on. I hear over and over again how once the new year starts all these great changes are going to happen, magically you will find the motivation to lose all that weight and fill that bank account. The new year will sprinkle pixy dust into your wallet and make it grow with money from that magical tree in your yard. With that money you will travel all over the world, right? All of this requires you to keep your focus for the fist week only.  Many reasons why I feel it is all a bunch of BS.

In the month of December I received 4 mailings from local gyms, 2 from weight watchers and 1 from a local plastic surgeon, all promising me to help me achieve my weight loss goals that I never told any of them I had. I also got many mailings from local banks with “the best offers” imaginable, with so many incredible offers to help me in the new year, help I didn’t reach out for. Also from travel and booking sites.. deals that I must act on for the new year!! They are all playing into the ridiculousness of people wanting to turn a new leaf, which can only be done on New Years and on certain Monday’s through the year. More BS.

Everyday of every week in every month of every year is a new day to start something to better yourself and your life. There is no set day, no set time and no set year for this to happen. It all happens when you want it to, when you are ready for it to happen.  You need to lose weight? Just do it, start. I started with the Living Fit Club on a Sunday in October, breaking all the rules, right? Even better I was a success!!! I toned my body mentally, physically, and emotionally. I learned about saving and growing my business, both on my list of goals.

Changing isn’t something you do because it is a socially widespread phenomena. It is something you do because the timing is right for you. I wanted to join the Living Fit Club a lot earlier then I did but it wasn’t time for me, not until this past October. I lost 12 pounds so far, I lost many inches, I finally have a saving strategy and I hit the rank of Star in December and I am on point to hit Senior Star this month. I am doing my life the way I want to reach my goals that I set for myself. A lot of “MY” there. I realize that doing things on MY timeline is the only way to actually reach my goals and utilize all the potential I have in the best way possible.

With that, I booked and paid for my trip and ticket to the Young Living convention for this coming June, not only myself but for my son. This lifestyle is so important to me I have to share it with Julian. I want him to experience the Young Living culture first hand. This was a goal, not a resolution or a wish. I put it on my list of goals, on my vision board, thought about it in meditation and worked hard to make it happen.

Everyday you wake up you are given another chance to make your life amazing and build it how you want it. It may not be easy to get there, but is it any easier on January 1st then it is on August 24th?  If you are looking for inspiration on getting things in order I strongly suggest checking out LFC here. It took so much more then just a food plan to change my life around, it cost nothing to check it out!

You are the hero of your own story, write it the way you want it to be read.  Live it the way you want it to be written and enjoy the freedom of taking control!

Happy New Year!!



Oh Baby · Uncategorized

Oh Baby! Toxic Free Baby Products!


Babies have the most delicate skin and are in need of special consideration as to what you use on them. When I was pregnant with Julian I stocked up on all things I thought I would need once I had him. Then, I was a Government employee, we were not (still aren’t) entitled to paid time off for maternity leave, although as a union member I was allowed 16 weeks unpaid. Because of this I preplanned my butt off.  I purchased diapers, that were chlorine free, wipes with no scent and organic, I looked up how to make my own but became too overwhelmed. I had fragrant free laundry detergent, organic lotions, soaps etc. You get the picture…right?

I had my baby shower I was gifted so many wonderful items, tons of diapers, wipes and body products. Very few were from my registry or the brands I was targeting but there was no way I would be ungrateful and mention that to anyone. I took back what I could and exchanged it for my preferred items. Although what I returned was bigger in bulk then what I got in exchange. Getting all the good stuff is expensive and there aren’t tons of coupons like there are for the competitor but every penny was worth it.

Once I had Julian I had postpartum depression and was not as picky, a good day consisted of less then 10 panic attacks.. although that is for another day and another blog (lol). I stayed as consistent as I could but on some shopping trips, my original plan fell through just because I didn’t want to be in the store.

I wish that at that time I was apart of Young Living. One, because they have all the body products and wipes that I would use today on my baby and two, because I am part of Essential Rewards so it would be shipped to me without a thought.

What makes these products different? I am taking this from the Young Living Website .

Seedlings lotion: Made without alcohol, parabens, synthetic fragrances, artificial dyes, or other unwanted ingredients, Seedlings Baby Lotion is formulated with 100 percent plant-based ingredients and pure essential oils to soothe your little one with a light, calming scent. KEY INGREDIENTS: Murumuru butter, mango butter, cocoa butter, calendula extract, annatto oil, apple extract, and Lavender essential oil.  Sounds good enough to eat, doesn’t it?

Baby Oil:  Our non-greasy formula moisturizes, soothes, and nourishes baby’s skin. It absorbs smoothly; provides a light, calm aroma; and promotes a relaxing environment. Formulated without mineral oil, it is vegan friendly and suitable for everyday use.
KEY INGREDIENTS: Apricot oil, Prickly pear oil, Lavender essential oil, Coriander essential oil, Bergamot essential oil, Ylang Ylang essential oil, and Geranium essential oil.

Baby Wipes: (we still use)  These versatile wipes are made with a soft, thick material that can handle a variety of messes and can be used on any part of your infant’s skin, leaving a soothing, light scent from our Calm essential oil blend. KEY INGREDIENTS: Apple fruit extract, Soapberry fruit extract, Aloe, Calendula extract, and Lavender essential oil.

Diaper Rash Cream: Seedlings Diaper Rash Cream can be used as a preventative measure before bed or anytime when exposure to wet diapers may be prolonged. The extra gentle, mild formula—developed specially for your infant’s tender skin—seals out wetness and helps balance skin moisture while reducing redness.
KEY INGREDIENTS: Non-nano zinc oxide, Mango butter, Murumuru butter, Lavender essential oil, German Chamomile essential oil, and Helichrysum essential oil

KidScents® Shampoo: contains no synthetic perfumes, colors, or toxic ingredients. The natural components in this shampoo—aloe, MSM, Chamomile, and Tangerine and Lemon essential oils—effectively and gently cleanse without causing irritation.  KidScents® Shampoo contains: Natural ingredients, therapeutic-grade essential oils, no mineral oils, no synthetic perfumes, no artificial colorings, no toxic ingredients.

Just a side note: Laundry detergent contains the most toxins of all items in your home, check out the YL line of thieves products here. If ordering please use enroller/sponsor ID 1754913.

As your kids grow so does the possibility of other products you can use. I recommend the thieves laundry detergent, thieves house cleaner, sunscreen, insect repellant, toothpaste and vitamins to start off with!!

This is your chance to plant that first seed of wellness to your new baby or to give the gift of wellness to the most precious miracle imaginable.

**** GIVAWAY**** Comment below, let me know which product you would like to try for one entry. Order the full set of products here and automatically get a free seedling product from me!!! I can’t wait for you to try it!!

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Mom Of The Year

          Unfu*k Yourself 

“Before you think ‘but …’ or start to get your knickers in a twist….let me say one more thing: By defending your circumstances as they are right now, you are actually making a case for being where you are. Giving it up.” (Unfu*k Yourself, Gary John Bishop)

This resonates with me on so many levels. I made excuses for my miserable situation for so many years not because I was okay with it or trying to fool myself but because I was embarrassed by it.  I lived a life of unfulfilled promises, lack of love, lack of passion, regret, resentment and the list goes on. I allowed it becaus i was embarrassed of my situation and having to admit I made a really big mistake by staying where I stood.

When I finally realized that life is so much more then the misrable life I was muddling through and tolerating I felt a sense of freedom even though I didn’t actually take action physically. Mentally I decided my son deserved more then this, I didn’t want him thinking that constant disappointment and fighting was how life was supposed to be. With this I started to build the life I wanted him to have. Julian was only a year old, I started positive affirmations with him as he went to sleep or when we were playing, actually whenever I could. When he was bullied at 3 I started making cards of how awesome he was and had him tell me why he was amazing and loved himself. At that moment, to teach by example I started to do the same. There was my shift.

Making myself be accountable for how I feel about myself opened me up to a shift in my life. It was very hard for me at first. When you’re in a loveless marriage, unappreciated, ignored and put down daily, no matter your strength if you’re not contering it, it seeps in and becomes your aweful reality. Each day I would pick 3 different things to love about me until I acknowledged it was real, I believed it because it was true. 

I am not willing to put up with, make excuses or hide behind embarrassment anymore. I am the hero of my own story. I am moving onward and upward, why should I? Julian deserves it, moreover deserve it. I love being a mom, holistic practitioner, essential oil teacher, blogger, friend, sister, daughter and all the other hats I wear because I am writing this story on my terms.

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Cyber Monday and Young Living

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💥 Ningxia NITRO: Physical and mental energy booster in a tiny tube! Skip the energy drink and grab a NITRO. Infused with essential oils, botanical extracts, D-ribose, Korean ginseng, and green tea extract, NITRO supports both physical and cognitive fitness 💪.

⚡️Zyng: Sparkling drink lovers unite with this delicious essential- oil infused goodness. Zyng contains the same wolfberry purée found in Ningxia Red, with sparkling water, pear and blackberry juices and a hint of lime and black pepper vitality oils! Not only delicious, but perfect for an afternoon pick-me-up without artificial flavors and preservatives.

🌱 Peppermint Vitality: Add some extra freshness to your Ningxia shots with a drop of peppermint vitality! Use as a natural breath freshener, add a drop to some tea or your bullet proof ☕️ coffee and let your inner Energizer 🐰 Bunny out! And support your Digestive system while you’re at it!

🍁 Cinnamon Bark Vitality: Who loves sweet and spicy? 🙋 Add a drop of this to your Ningxia for some 🔥 heat! Perfect to add to your holiday baking as well. Beyond the yummy flavor this oil supports the digestive system and is great for heart health too. Bam!

🍈 Lime Vitality: My go-to oil to add to Ningxia and of course all the guacamole you could ever eat. But did you also know this oil supports the respiratory and immune system? Yup! Tasty and good for your body too!! Give me all the Lime Vitality.

🔥 Red Shot: A blend of tangerine, mandarin, lime, grapefruit, cassia, and spearmint. You know that Red Hot candy? That’s what it tastes like to me! 😂This oil is priceless because we can’t buy it in the virtual office. We were able to grab some at convention and it’s in the Club Red Holiday set, but that’s it! It also contains Cassia, an essential oil we can only get in the Oils of Ancient Scripture kit! So um, yeah I’m gonna be grabbing up a few of these. Cassia is fabulous for the immune system and cardiovascular system and those citrus oils are all vitality oils that are immune system support powerhouses! And Spearmint Vitality is great for the digestive system, weight management, and it’s actually a big oil for your emotional well being by opening up and releasing emotional blocks.

Wondering what it would be to purchase all these goodies at 15 % off? 328.95pv and this means you get FIVE free Red Shots and ALL the YL promos if it’s your first or second 300pv for the month.

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I am worth it · living fit · Manifest 2017 in 17 Seconds · Meditation Minded · Prepping Healthy Meals For Better Eating Habbits

Living Fit and Feeling ALIVE

This might be my shortest blog post ever lol
My transformation has been massive these last 30 days. The Livingfit.club has been a life changer for me, I haven’t had one so big since I started using my Young Living Oils! I invite you to join me on this journey. They say it is more than just a treadmill and a salad – this is an understatement for real. I have been struggling through life to get things completed and was in need of a restart and extra push. This was it for me. I have mental clarity, enough to complete writing my book, finish 3 list of things to do not to mention losing weight and inches, fitting into clothes that once were too tight, I lost more inches than pounds which makes me really happy. I feel free and awake, more then I have in a long time.
Check out the website https://lfcportal.com/challenges and join my team 177 Ningxia Ninjas, I promise you won’t be sorry at all!!! I won’t stop posting until I am heard xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo

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Manifest 2017 in 17 Seconds · Meditation Minded


iamManifestation is something very real and tangible. I believe in vision boards, meditation, visualization and “I am” statements. They work as long as you keep them in sight and repeat them daily out loud as well as in your head. Put it out into the universe and the universe will respond.

When ever I start reading my “I am” affirmations I always hear Mike Shinoda’s voice from Linkin Park “I am a little bit of loneliness, a little bit of disregard
Handful of complaints, but I can’t help the fact that everyone can see these scars
I am what I want you to want, what I want you to feel.  But it’s like no matter what I do, I can’t convince you, to just believe this is real”  and soon enters Chester Bennington fiercely “Don’t turn your back on me, I won’t be ignored”. (Faint, Meteora 2003)  This is my inner fight within myself daily. I won’t ignore my inner self anymore.

Most people put themselves down without even realizing they are doing it. How many times in a day do you think “ah I can’t, I shouldn’t, I won’t, impossible, I wish” I ask why not?  When you put things on paper and take them out of your head they become reality. Once you see the words in front of you and read it aloud over and over it will soon become the script of your life.  Who are you? What are you? You can change the reality of your life with the words “I AM”.  You write these statements as if it has already happened, you are already living this life that is your best life.

I am powerful

I am enough

I am successful

I am an amazing mom

I am peaceful

I am love

I am an elevated soul

I am a home owner

I am a published author

I am disciplined

I am a great example

I am in control of my eating

I am a great saver

I am a great leader

I am debt free

I am able to help others financially

I am living a life with purpose

I am aware of my abilities

What are you? Are you where you want to be? What are you going to do about it? Publishing these I am affirmations of mine is taking me out of my comfort zone and putting it out in the biggest way I know how. Start your list and see how long it comes into fruition! You are worth it, you deserve it and YOU ARE!



Uncategorized · Young Living

Making This Change for MY Health



This is my time to shine. I have been working on my weight and health for many years now. I am part of Young Living but aside from using my oils on Julian and myself I haven’t been doing much sharing. I have just been so focused on healing, mentally from my pending divorce and abusive marriage, physically from my many ailments that they still don’t have answers for and emotionally from both.

I love my oils because they have helped me deal with my health by supporting my immune system and for Julian his respiratory  and immune system. Not to mention the great income it affords me to keep up with life while not working. I am now ready to take the next step in life and do a total reset on my health. Young Living has a Living Fit Club, my section of YL is called Triharmony Oilers. Our leader (nothing cult like about it lol) has made every tool available to us to help us succeed and I am using it to the fullest.

This fit club is more than just resetting health, it shows you how to eat whole foods, no fillers as well as learning about how to keep negativity out of your life and how to work on your finances. Just for joining up I received 500 wellness dollars to go towards a vacation and can earn up to 500.00 more throughout the year because yes, vacations are required.  As well as building a stress free and debt free life. They offer recipes, exercise videos, overall support, a Facebook group, travel information in one click, and if you want to take Young Living to the next level and make it a business they have the videos and training for that too. 

The first challenge I joined starts in 19 days and I am going to be putting together a team. You can check out the fit club here. My sponsor number is 236006 should you decide to take the leap of wellness with me. If you want to learn more in person we are having an event, please see below for the details.  I hope you choose to join me on this amazing journey of wellness because we are both WORTH IT!

living fit club
Guess what is in less than 3 weeks away? The next Young Living RALLY! Know what that means? New products AND product specials! But that’s not all… We are focusing this Long Island rally on the Living Fit Club so you learn how you can grow your life AND your business.

And here’s the deal for current LFC members:
Get to the event and earn $100 wellness dollars towards travel and $50 wellness dollars for each new person you bring to our event.

I realize that many of you do not live anywhere near us SO I want to offer you something, too! Go to any YL Rally near you (or host one), show me that you were indeed there, and I will give you $100 wellness dollars, too! #TeamYL #LFCstrong

To register for the Long Island event, go here:

Not close to us? No worries! Go on YL’s website and look for a Rally near you! They are all over the world.